eHarmony

Where to begin... I went to this site and enrolled in the top-tier subscription. I thought there would be fewer scammers on a paid dating site than on free ones. Wrong!! eHarmony is loaded with them! Most of the women who were matching with me turned out to be fake. I asked for a refund within the first three days and was told they only allow… Read more

refunds in that time frame in certain states (??)! The other issue is that, even though I cast a wide net in terms of criteria (distance, age range...), I haven't had a single (not one) new woman's profile to view in 4 days now. Are there really that few women? The distance I set includes not only my state, but neighboring states. Don't waste your money! I feel like the whole thing is a scam!

DO NOT PAY FOR A SUBSCRIPTION!!!! Before you pay you can only talk with a person once, you don't even get to see where they live. Once you pay for the subscription you are stuck paying for it for however long you subscribe for and it is impossible to get out of. Trust me when I tell you that I've tried, and I was only on there for 3 days and now… Read more

I'm stuck paying over $400. Eharmony administration is absolutely no help, they just keep sending the same old automated response. I wish I had read the reviews before I subscribed, because now I'm stuck paying monthly repayments to a site I have no intention of using, considering there is no one on there local to me. If i could give it zero stars i would, but 1 star is as low as i can go.

Horrible site. Gives instructions on how to delete profile but no delete button. Contacted them, they gave excuses, lies and kept avoiding the issue. Tried again 5 years later and same bullshit. Show details

Shocking. Do NOT touch. Misleading about subscriptions and cannot cancel

Misleading Advertising – I have to say I feel 'eharmony' has cheated me through seriously misleading advertising. Firstly, the web site says "The dating app rated highest by users" with NO cross reference. If your reading this review this seriously misrepresents the FACTS… Read more

as this site rates eharmoy's service as 1.3 out of 5 stars with similar poor ratings appear in Reddit, Trust Pilot and Consumer Affairs.

Secondly, after my initial inquiry I decided not to proceed, but then received successive emails offering 40% discount valid for a 'limited time' and then 60% at which point i checked the 'usual voluminous terms & conditions (T&C’s) for the Termination Clause (section 11) which highlighted the fact that "Either you or eHarmony may terminate your account AT ANY TIME, for any reason or no reason, without explanation" so based on this condition I subscribed to the service. HOWEVER two months later I had found a 'friend' which of course IS THE WHOLE POINT OF A DATING SITE but when I cancelled I found a clause 'buried separately' (section 12) in the T&C's that required that I was required to continue paying the monthly subscription of $14.96 AUD for a full 12 months.

My reaction to what i now consider was a form of 'scam', was to cancel any futher payments on my credit card, and ignore eHarmony's threats by 'blocking' all further communications. Undoutedly, this would have been a common occurrence for eHarmony and their process would be to not waster further time and cost by resorting to legal action (which i doubt would stand uo in court anyway), so i havent heard from eHarmony since.

Hopefully their decieptful tactics have not caught out too may innocent subscribers!!

This platform is full of scammers and don't bother reporting it as you won't receive a reply Show details

I found love on eHarmony. Unfortunately I wasn't fortunate enough to keep it. However it worked for me twice. I suppose you have to be lucky, and when you find it hold on tight with both hands Show details

I have been on this site twice for about 9 months each time over a 3 year period. I have found the site to be technically very good, and easy to navigate, but there is a bit of a learning curve and you need to be reasonably computer savvy. I am in the 65+ age range and never found any fake profiles. There are some people who ignore messages and… Read more ·  1

behave somewhat badly, but they are in the minority, and you can't blame the site for people's behaviour. My only gripe would be the poor location data given. The 2 post code digits in my area give a poor idea of where a potential match lives - especially when you get out of the 20KM circle. Surely it wouldn't hurt to quote the suburb. In my area contacts that are close enough occur often enough. I have had sufficient contacts, some came close to lasting relationships - not everyone is going to be a perfect match and I know I contributed to a couple of fails with somewhat poor social skills. However this is the best site I have used and happy to continue. Some other sites I have tried are totally dishonest scams - no other way of describing them. Anyone who gives up after a week or 2 on EH hasn't given it a fair go. If you are not getting many matches in your area - it may be due to a sparsely populated region or an age group not into online dating. Do your homework - use the free version of the site - may have blurred photos and limited contact capability but will give an idea of how many people are out there, and indicate if a paid subscription could work. Put some time into your profile, make sure it is complete and honest, with a photo, or you can expect to be ignored or rejected.

E harmony works – I have just joined E harmony and to be honest you do find matches and connections so I'm really not sure why we have some negative reviews .....if you read the reviews before joining you would think twice but I truly believe that you do get messages and genuine people do reply....so if you are thinking about joining I would say yes it's not… Read more ·  1

expensive give it a chance and there is someone there that's real and genuine ...it's not a scam site at all

Not clear and deceiving choices on payment. I choose per month $11 and turn out to be I committ to a whole year payment plus another $3.50 on top of the $11 per month. You cannot delete you profile any time you wish. They want payment for 12 months. Not recommended. Show details

If I could give EHarmony, 0 star I would. I originally signed up for 6 months which was exhorbitant at nearly $70 a month. I was getting 4-5 likes every day with the same opening sentences. They were not real people; they were bots. I also kept getting messages from EHarmony saying they found a match for me. Again, not real people. On occasion, a… Read more

real person would like my profile. I met a couple of guys but they were not right for me. When my membership expired, I let it go as I had enough of the fake profiles. I kept getting messages from EHarmony about discounted plans: 40% off, then 50% off, the 60% off. I ignored them for 6 months. Recently, I thought I’d give it another go at 60% off (premium they call it) and it is costing me just under $20 a month. HUGE DISCOUNT. Do not be fooled by their discount. I would be lucky if I got 1 like a week now. Where are all the professionals they claim they have on their portal??? No premium customers when you are paying at a discounted rate. Do not sign up with this company as they just fleece you and give you nothing. Unfortunately I have signed up for 12 months. Once this expires, no more EHarmony. I wish I could cancel my membership now.

Please do not waste your money. I wish I had read the reviews before I signed up. An American company that all they seem interested in is getting your hard earned $$. Many profile pictures with sunglasses and hats, fake profiles and the amount of spam I have received since signing up is relentless. Forget about trying to cancel your membership,… Read more

it’s impossible. I’m now stuck with a product that is beyond terrible and paying for something I’m not using as I don’t want to get a bad credit rating.

I will absolutely not recomande!. looking for a man I have reasonable expectations with age/education/Distance ect nothing in this platform brings any subgedtion. I get most of the time recommendations to review my “expectations” I request a 3-time cancellation! with no success I delay the application... Now they are still asking for $ true a collecting agency. So frustrating bad experience all over Show details

Freaking rort! Of the exceptionally few profiles within range most don’t have faces. The subscription service is disgusting. Can’t cancel it without a complex system to get it cancelled and once you sign up they charge you regardless of the time left even when you cancel. Absolutely trash don’t waste your money.

I joined they sent me people 500km away. I tried to cancel but didnt know actual date i joined. I contacted them to cancel they said they couldnt. I tried repeated times to cancel. I evetually cancelled my credit card. They said they would cancel… Read more

my subscription if i paid them $179. I agreed. It made no difference i now owe about 500 and they have their own debt collection agency. I refered these problems were to an outside agency p*ssed consumers. They reported eHarmony had recieved all my proof of cancellation attempts. It made no difference. ACCC recorded a major case against them in 2023 in Australia. Im now stuck. I am thinking of initiating a class action against them. Their behaviour is just extortion.

I wish I could give zero stars. This site promises better matches through asking more questions. What is totally not clear in their advertising is that in order to see photos you need to purchase a subscription of $62.90 per month for a minimum of 6… Read more

months. Based on their advertising I thought why not try. However this fee gives you nothing more than the photos. No additional information or help to find a match. The app has a lot less people on(now I see why!) than other apps and is slow and glitchy. Do not be fooled and save your money! App is an absolute waste or time!

I joined eHarmony but suddenly could not get into the site. When I informed the company of my difficulty, their response was, essentially, tough-keep paying us, and don't even try to leave us. Show details

I requested to cancel my subscription, yet money is still being withdrawn from my account. I only provided my old card number, so I have no idea how you obtained my new card details. This is a serious matter, and I am considering taking legal action for the unauthorized use of my credit card information. I have also asked my bank to dispute all the funds that were taken from my card illegally.

The government will not allow eharmony to delete inactive profiles even when directly requested as its used for collecting information. The site is expensive and non response matches as the profiles are simply sitting there undeleted. Poor format and in general a BIG waste of expensive money. Watch for auto renewal, many get trapped. They offer so… Read more

called discounts which is a lie. The original price is overinflated as this is a psychological trick to make you think the site has a quality about it that does not exist. In general a waste of money.

If I could give a minus I would. I signed up for the basic eharmony but very quickly realised it wasn’t for me and tried to cancel it but that proved impossible I was told I could only put my account on hold, so I removed all my details so I was not visible. I contacted eharmony asking to cancel but they refused and kept taking money from my… Read more

account different amounts ie $20.99, $14.96, $38.99 over several months even though I was not using it. In desperation I had to cancel my bank account. Now they are trying to force me to pay $350.10. I tried to cancel within a month. This company is a money grabber do not use them.

Beware of this site you can’t delete your account I have been trying for months. They say it’s because of the legal battle they are fighting atm. Says it all Show details