Read the fine print regarding ending your selected period of premium membership
I was very surprised that I cannot stop the automatic renew of the service online at their site.. I have been a member of few dating sites, cancellation is simple as long you advise them before the expiry date. Okcupid is run by a company BE2 registered in Luxembourg. If you are not planning to renew after your contracted date you must advised them by REGISTERED email 14 days before the expiry date. I have never sent a registered email before ❓❓❓❓
- Verified customer
Waste of my money.
I have actually never paid to use a dating app before but I was getting nowhere with other apps and decided to purchase a premium membership with okcupid. Big mistake. All it did was show me who “likes me”. Despite paying for the top membership I still had to pay extra for other features. Okcupid also claims that you can search according to “attractiveness”. Not sure who decides who is more attractive than who on the site? Anyway I decided to give that feature a go and selected to view “hot” people. Ummmmm....not sure who decided that these p...eople were hot. It was just profiles of the same unattractive people. The quality of people on this site is extremely poor as well. I got lots of “likes” but from people I would never consider dating. Waste of money.
Full of scammers
In two months about 80% of my contacts were scammers. I wrote emails to OKCupid - no reply and reactions. It was difficult to find how to complain, how to contact them in that matter.
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One of the best website designs, but not enough members
I really like the design of OkCupid, especially as it gives a wide range of options to select from in terms of gender identity, sexual orientation, and whether the person is interested in monogamy or non-monogamy. The Q&A section really helps to get a snapshot of people's relationship goals, values, worldview and political leanings which is valuable too. The only bad thing is that there aren't enough people on there.
Full of fake profiles and scammers
Initially looked ok but after a week discovered the only real people were totally desperate losers or totally gorgeous women - who were of course fake scammers. My advice. Dont join and on any site you go to google search the messages you get and reverse image search everyone. I was shocked at how many well known porn starts were messaging me because I ( a boring middle aged normal aussie guy) was somehow their urgent sexual fantasy. Lucky I quit before I was sucked in and ripped off.
Nothing to do there. The service I have been recieveing wasn't up to the standards I expected for $5
Nothing to do there. The service I have been receiving wasn't up to the standards I expected for $50 monthly payment. I tested this site several times in different ways and what I waana say, that is as bad as expencive.
- Verified customer
Non responsive customer care team
I join as it claimed free dating but quickly found that it wouldn't load anything except the upgrade page. Yes I admit I didn't read the terms properly chose the 6month option thinking it would be monthly so was shocked when they deducted the whole amount. After an hour of trying to maneuver my way round site unsuccessfully mind you, I managed to come across a guy I went to school with that was known as the local ice dealer, he claimed he was 8years younger than he is, his first line of his profile said funny, honest, doesn't drink, smoke or do drug. So 3 strikes this app is out! I contacted them to advise I was not happy n wanted a refund this was 28th Oct it's now 31st Oct n still no response.
Banned for telling 4 Chinese girls who contacted me , to get lost , all had the same profile pics.
This is NOT a private site !!!! OkCupid staff read the messages !!! How else do they send those odd replies ...you know the ones I'm talking about ! After banning me , I am glad I'm not using that crap site anymore ......someone looking in the keyhole ! Messages should be private , irrespective of content . If someone upsets someone ..unmatch them ! They must get kicks out of reading private messages !
Also , I was sick and tired of Philippines girls , asking for money ! Or , asking if I wanted a vdo show ! I would tell them to get lost also !
If you want to use OkCupid ......be prepared to share your content with the staff who work there ...nothing is private !
Banned for making a suggestion
I make a suggestion/enquiry regarding the search categories to the staff, as the website encourages you to do so. I was asking how I can search for CIS women as my search results frequently had transgender people, nothing wrong with that but not what I'm looking for.
Staff member disagreed with my suggestion(no problem with that)/did not answer my enquiry. Suddenly my profile is banned with no explanation rather than the generic violation of terms and service notice. So I read the terms and conditions in full. Obviously had not violated any...
Not enough members, same people keep showing up even if you swipe NO on their profile
Very disappointed with the new OkCupid website. There's just not enough local members, and I live in Sydney city! The website needs a lot of improving as well, I don't like how members can't message me unless I come across their profile and read their message. It forces you to waste a lot of time searching, miss opportunities to connect and what bothers me the most is that members who I swipe NO on keep showing up again and again. They should have left OkCupid the way it has always been. Also too many unattractive people on there, real lack of ...quality. Like other sites they should also allow you to validate your profile so you know which profiles aren't fake, and being able to write a review on a persons profile would be a big help! On a positive note, I do like the immense questionnaire to match you up with people you may be compatible with that have shared interests, and it does a good job as coming across as a dating site not a hookup site. Still, I'll stick with paid websites as people on there are more genuine and better quality. I just don't think OkCupid is the right site for me, they're pretty boring and ordinary members in general and aren't down to get freaky. I've met much more interesting people elsewhere. Too vanilla.
Probably amongst the best free on line and paid dating and friendship sites.
Been on a lot of sites and tries quiet a few, even though the number of ladies from Australia and Sydney is very low there are a lot of ladies from over seas willing to chat and exchange details. In the first month I got over 93 likes and messages some were fakes but considering that these things happen on any social media this was very well run and the site does have real members. Still talking to a few ladies and have contacts. Did not really try for more then one that I found very interesting. I am planning to go to Vietnam to meet her. The ...difference is this, Video chat after several messages and exchanged details Most ladies from other sites will not video chat and some can not even have their credential checked some even had fake Face book accounts. Porn stars and escorts used for profile photos by scam artists. Any site may have this but found that O K Cupid was cleaner by far then 90 % of the others. Even had scam artists report my profile (the woman was a fake offering a hook up but wanted a credit card verification) had over 170 scam artists attempts. And more then likely hack my accounts on several sites after reporting a few from another site. Over all O K Cupid is by far the best I have been on so far. I do enjoy testing and researching these sites. At times the sites are so cleverly designed that men and members usually waste a lot of money trying to meet the other members that some times do not exist.
Enjoy OKCupid the Most
I am currently on 6 online dating apps and I can honestly say I enjoy OKCupid the most. Chatting is friendly open and transparent... and you seem to be able to post links and pictures in the editor.(very rare)
Why do chats flow so smoothly? Mainly I think this is due to the extraordinarily comprehensive personal survey presented. So vast you would be struggling to answer all the queries. (I was told there are 3,000 questions, and I tend to believe that)
So logically, this makes for a far more accurate matching process than with other sit...es. And you materialize a more intimate connection with your date (?) And the chemistry does come forth (or fifth at least) In fact dates I've generated thru OKC lasted hours (walking and talking - not mattressing (just made that word up - do you like it?)) My only regret is the relatively limited numbers of subscribers, (so you lose 1 star OKC-apologies). Yet Tinder is a huge cold hard monster, but is essentially unresponsive.
Questions & Answers
Hello Not Happy
You say: "The members are mostly Hard Left Feminists who actually hate men"
I've joined this site and am not getting that. So am most interested to have you validate your statement. Was it:
(a) personal opinion
(b) observation based upon deep research
(c) security hack of data
(d) private survey
And would also like to know HOW it was better years ago.I do not mean to attack you but would like to maximize the effectiveness of the site for me.
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