Upforit.com

Complete scam – Every single woman I spoke to on that website was completely fake and just another robot, the “site admin“ was nothing but another robot as well, then there was anyone who is in your “local“ area, They were all asking to do this that and the other and when asked legitimate questions they all decided to get offended at random questions Then once I… Read more

cancelled my paid subscription to the site which is the only way to apparently access it, my account got completely deleted and they refused to allow me to sign back in

This site is a complete scam and fake filled with robots and scammers, Anyone who says otherwise is here are kidding themselves or is a part of their developer team, Nobody who is actually on that site is getting completely scammed

Don’t even consider checking this site out “upforit” is a joke

I used this site – I used upforit for less time than I expected because I found a great partner faster than I thought possible. They’ve got a great algorithm for finding your own soulmate!

Great way to hook up – Never thought this UpForIt.com could work out but decided to stay and now been with my partner for months now. So happy. Feels like we have been together forever. I cannot wait to see what the future holds Show details

Was temporary happy on the site – This site for maybe 7 days using and than you are getting bored with all what happens. Maybe its more about online dating staff. But I want to tell thank you to admins for creating good mood on the site Show details

pls give me the app – ok, that was a very different and curious experience. the site is vibrant, I just want to have it in the form of the app, hope that its devs will get my feedback

Only because you dont have a Zero option – This site is one of many that used to be operated by Bulova Invest.They have recently had a major revision of their documentation and site. It used to state in the T+C etc and copyright notice that it was owned/operated by Bulova Invest based in the Virgin Islands. Now all of the documentation states that it operated by General company in General… Read more

city. I.e. everything is boilerplate documentation but no-one has added the particular identifying details. But the 1800 number for all of the sites in the network hasn't changed.

Once you join as a registered guest, you get bombarded with messages from prospective partners who seem glad that there is someone to meet on the site. Of course you can't read the messages until you become a paid member. Once you become a paid member and are entitled to "unlimited messages" for the duration of your subscription, most of the hoard disappear and are never seen again.

The few that remain seem interested for a while but once you have shared about 6-7 messages with one, everything dries up, not necessarily because the respondents loose interest but because the operators block further interaction to induce you to step up a level and pay extra. If you do, things work reasonably for a short while, then block up again, and you are asked to step up again, but they don't tell you what you will get for more money, because it is absolutely nothing.

They offer free messaging for women so to check them out after having similar issues with other Bulova sites, I signed up again as a guy, waited till they got the join up fee discounted to 50%, paid for a month and set up a fake female profile as well so I could send messages from me to my fake alterego and back. Sure enough got seven messages each way then no more would arrive. Raised the issue with their support crew who assured me that the messages had arrived in the recipients mailbox but they hadn't read them yet and might not, while I had my profile mailbox and my fake female profile both open on different browsers on my computer and the messages were definitely not delivered.

As I said, I had a similar experience with a number of other Bulova Invest sites, and also with Together Networks sites that use the same software T+C etc. Every site fro either group always had the about 80% common profile images with different names, ages or locations, but the same text in the body of the profile. Within a site, if you changed your location say Melb to Sydney or Perth, the same profiles would pop up there with a different location, so very obviously FAKES.

Cancelling subscriptions is possible but difficult. You need to call the 1800 support number which transfers to Filipino call centre who cannot understand Aussie accents and try to run you through a questionaire, pass you to support etc hoping you will either give up on cancelling, or run over the time limit to cancel before they draw the next subscription from your card. Once you finally get the sub cancelled and get a confirmation email from them, you should log in and delete everything in your profile (because despite what they say, your profile lives on forever, it just has someone else controlling it) and cancel all communication setups (30+ that they set up by default).

Then start a 5 step process to advise them that you want to retreat. Then some random time in the next few hours they will email you a cancellation code. You then have to log into the site, go to your profile sittings and cancel membership a second time then enter the cancellation code at stage 2 and confirm. The cancellation code is only valid for 24hrs from the time you request it and it arrives 3-8 hrs into that window, so you need to be able to regularly check for it and act promptly, otherwise you do it again the next day and again and again.

Oh, do yourselves a favour and get a post office debit card to pay your way into these scams and only ever have enough credit on to do what you want to do, not what they want you to do. That way, you don't have the hassle of explaining funny credit card entries to your partner, and you get to hide behind a bank's willingness to decline transactions for insufficient funds. Luckily the PO debit card says you are called "VALUED CUSTOMER" so they even give you a fake name, all you need is a disposable email add to check card balance and log into the scam site with.

very dodgy – Lies lies and more lies, you talk to someone then cut off. Too many bot on here. Load of crap and very frustrating to use. Stay away and keep your sanity

Free Dating – Well to be perfectly honest there is no such thing for free, after a couple of times i tried "free" dating, a few sites came up, you join you receive an email, most times and they usually send you a message from an interested lady just to get your hope up then the funniest thing you go back a second time then all of the fees and charges apply… Read more

when it suggested a "free" site, do not pay anything until you have a look online. What i usually

do is do some research online with that particular dating site and if there is anything negative even a slightest hint

do not "go"

Filled with fakes and scammers – I got a 6 month membership in 1 month had about 80 women contact me! Not one of them was real they were all fakes scammers and the spam is unlike I have ever seen on any dating site ever. I contacted customer service and there reply was just block them I would not recommend this site to anybody. I cancelled my account and ask for my profile to be… Read more

deleted, I had only been a paying member of the site for a month and I paid for 6 month I still have five months to go on it. That tells you how bad the site is when you leave it after one month still having 5 months left. nice looking site lol Lots of fakes, scamers and spam like I have never seen before